DO YOU FIND YOURSELF…
You’re not alone. So many Christian women struggle with people pleasing too.
Watch this short video from Alicia to see how women are breaking free from people pleasing patterns—through targeted 1:1 coaching grounded in brain science and led by the Holy Spirit.
P.S. This isn’t about trying harder to “stop” people pleasing.
It’s about understanding the deeper patterns driving it— and using proven brain science tools + biblical truth to change it at the root.
Imagine if you could finally have the courage and confidence to:
— set boundaries without guilt
— release what was never your responsibility
— and feel peace—even in difficult or dysfunctional relationships
That's the power of using science-and-Scripture-based coaching to break free from people pleasing patterns.
join alicia for this 8-session coaching intensive starting june 15
An 8-session, one-on-one coaching intensive for Christian women to identify + rewire people pleasing patterns using brain science + biblical truth for a calmer mind, healthier relationships + renewed confidence.
You’ll work directly with Alicia in this personalized coaching experience to:
Because of this science-and Holy-Spirit-led transformation, you will:
If you're sick of the exhaustion, overwhelm and guilt that comes from trying to make everyone happy, then the People Pleasing Mindset Makeover is just what you need!
You can stay in these dysfunctional patterns that leave you depleted and angry…
OR you can find lasting freedom and hope through this powerful coaching work that changes the patterns from the inside out.
Apply now for this 8-session coaching intensive starting June 15.
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What We'll Cover in Our 8 Themed Coaching Sessions:
SESSION 1: Identify Your Patterns + Your “Why”
Get clear on how people pleasing is showing up, and why it’s been so hard to change
You’ll learn:
✨ How your specific people pleasing patterns show up
✨ The brain-based fear responses that keep you stuck
✨ Why this pattern formed—and what it’s costing you in your relationships + peace
SESSION 2: Understand Your Brain's Core Thoughts
Finally understand how your thoughts were formed—and why they feel so automatic
You’ll learn:
✨ Brain science 101 about the patterns behind people pleasing
✨ How 3 key identity questions are key to understanding your need to make others happy
✨ How to identify the broken soundtracks that keep you stuck
SESSION 3: Anchor Your Identity in Christ
Shift from living for others’ approval to living anchored in God’s truth
You’ll learn:
✨ Why people pleasing is often rooted in misplaced identity + fear of disappointment
✨ What it looks like to serve an audience of One instead of everyone else
✨ How to rebuild trust in God so you can feel safe in His love + stand on His promises
SESSION 4: Process Fear, Guilt + Family Patterns
Untangle the emotional weight that’s kept you stuck for years
You’ll learn:
✨ How fear of rejection, disconnection + being misunderstood drives your responses
✨ The difference between true responsibility + false responsibility
✨ How family patterns and the “good girl” role shape your tendency to over-function
SESSION 5: Rewire Your Mind to Align with Truth
Start intentionally replacing old thought patterns with new, life-giving ones with this proven brain science technique
You’ll learn:
✨ How to create a personalized brain priming that rewires subconscious patterns
✨ How to reinforce the truth your mind needs to hear so you can automatically respond differently to people pleasing
✨ How to retrain your brain with new default responses that align with Scripture
SESSION 6: Build New Daily Thought Habits
Learn how to interrupt negative thinking and respond with clarity in real time
You’ll learn:
✨ How to challenge your inner critic + automatic negative thoughts
✨ How to use powerful emotional management tools in real-life situations
✨ A practical plan to consistently manage your thoughts + emotions moving forward
SESSION 7: Create Healthier Relationship Patterns
Start showing up differently in your most challenging relationships
You’ll learn:
✨ How to apply what you've learned to specific relationships where you people-please
✨ How to set boundaries, slow down your “yes” + respond with intention instead of pressure
✨ How to stay emotionally regulated when you feel triggered or tempted to over-accommodate
SESSION 8: Practice + Strengthen Your New Patterns
Continue to get feedback on your relationship situations as you practice healthier dynamics
You’ll learn:
✨ How to evaluate real-life situations and grow from what worked (and what didn’t)
✨ How your new core thought patterns are taking root—and how to strengthen them
✨ A clear path forward so you can continue responding with confidence, clarity + peace
In each week’s private coaching session, Alicia personally guides you through these topics…
ensuring that this people pleasing transformation isn't merely theoretical, but is something lived out in your everyday relationships.
Plus Get $1500 in Bonus Material:
Along with (8) private 1:1 coaching sessions ($4000 value) you'll receive:
✨ Alicia's “Emotional Prep” video training on calming your nervous system (essential when you're triggered by people pleasing) ($100 value)
✨ Weekly homework exercises for in-depth application ($1000 value)
✨ Custom brain priming work + 60 days of email support from Alicia ($400 value)
Total Value=$5500
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What Women Say After Working with Alicia…
All I can say is WOW. I have struggled with so many fears, especially around surrendering things that are out of my control.
Doing this work with Alicia has allowed God to bring me so much freedom and hope through His promises! I feel like I'm coming alive again!
I tried for years to help myself but didn’t find much relief until I found Alicia's Mindset Makeover. Alicia allowed me to address and conquer fear God’s way. She is the answer to many prayers for healing.
I really can’t thank her enough for how much she has changed my life. I am so beyond grateful!!!”
“I had pushed off toxic patterns like people pleasing as annoying but unimportant. But working with Alicia showed me that these affected me as deeply as “big” traumas in my life.
Thanks to her gentle probing style in our coaching sessions, I'm much healthier inside and finding much better ways to deal with difficult relationships.”
Alicia's mindset resources were an absolute game-changer! My family members have noticed a big change in how I handle my emotions, and I’ve told so many friends about all that I’ve learned and am applying.
I can’t say enough good things about working with her!
I can't even share how much I have changed, and how my relationships have changed! Because my internal dialogue was so accusatory, I struggled with anger for years.
Because of the tools Alicia has shown me, I know how to handle my frustration and can rest in God's love for the first time in my life.
” I have a new peace and confidence because of the coaching work I've done with Alicia.
When negative thoughts come up, I know how to refute them, and that gives me a sense of power.
I can tell a huge difference in my mind and I'm able finally focus on what God says about me!!”
I have struggled with a harsh internal critic for my entire life and that’s lead to overthinking and tons of anxiety.
Alicia helped me learn how to not only notice when these thought patterns were happening but to know how to lovingly address them and replace them with God’s truth. Life-changing!”
Words cannot express my appreciation for Alicia's kindness, encouragement and compassion. Our coaching work helped me to look forward during a difficult time.
So grateful for her passion to ‘set the captives free' and encourage women to become who God intended them to be.”
“I'm so thankful for Alicia's podcast. Just listening to The Christian Mindset Coach Podcast has changed the way I think about myself. I was very hard on myself and I didn't know how to love and be patient with myself.
I thank God for placing her podcast on my path. God bless you and your ministry, Alicia!
“I thought I had figured the answers to the three core questions you ask about identity. But I didn't know about the subconscious thought patterns and how they make us act differently than we want.
I love how the Christian Mindset Makeover uses the combination of science and God's Word to make these changes, and it's made my transformation especially powerful. So thank you, thank you!”
Alicia has taught me so many practical ways I could release negative emotions, overcome negative thoughts and reinforce positive biblical truth in my mind!
I appreciate that she understands the struggle, and that her counsel is both based in scripture and scientific research.
I have been seeking freedom from condemnation and approval seeking for so long. By God's anointing, Alicia helped me re-connect my brain with my heart. I don't need anyone's acceptance or approval anymore. I'm focusing on Jesus!
She's created such a beautiful space to help so many women walk in the freedom Christ paid to give!
Alicia's coaching was incredibly helpful in helping me get through a really stuck point in my life.
She helped me reframe my thinking, and because of that I was able to look to the future with a whole new energy and hope.
She helped me more than I can express. So grateful!”
Alicia brought a lot of powerful insights into our coaching sessions that changed the way I thought and gave me so much guidance.
I so appreciate her passion to help women find freedom to step into God's calling for their lives!
About Alicia Michelle
Alicia Michelle (ACC, CPLC) is passionate about helping Christian women build emotional confidence using practical tools rooted in science and Scripture.
She is an ICF-certified mindset coach and NeuroCoach, author of the book Emotional Confidence, Chief Emotions Officer of the Emotional Confidence Club, and host of the top-ranked, multi-award-winning podcast The Christian Mindset Coach.
By God’s grace, Alicia has helped tens of thousands of women experience more calm, clarity and joy as they manage anxiety, people pleasing and perfectionism. She also has a personal story of overcoming these patterns after she nearly lost her life in 2017 to a medical crisis brought on by years of not processing her emotions.
She hosts women's retreats all over the world, and she's a popular speaker for both Christian and secular groups (including the U.S. Navy). Alicia's work has been featured on 150+ media outlets, including FamilyLife Today, Jesus Calling, YouVersion, Cornerstone TV, Moody Radio; and her book is sold in major retailers like Target.
She loves to travel, bake sourdough bread, draw and paint, and savor life with her beloved husband, four kids and three dogs.
Frequently Asked Questions
You Don’t Have to Stay in People Pleasing's Exhausting Cycle of Overthinking Decisions + Overmanaging Others
It's time to stop “keeping the (dysfunctional) peace” with the frustrating, draining dance of people pleasing.
If you’re ready to stop managing the symptoms…
and start addressing what’s actually driving your people pleasing…
This is your opportunity to finally change the pattern and find true peace and confidence in your relationships.
Apply Now for the People Pleasing Mindset Makeover
I’d love to help you take the next step toward clarity, confidence and peace in your relationships in this 8-session People Pleasing Mindset Makeover.
Apply now for the next round of sessions (starting June 15)!
I look forward to hearing from you!
NOTE: Spots are incredibly limited so Alicia can devote to each woman the depth of coaching support that this work requires.
Even if the next session dates aren't a fit, apply now to get on the waiting list for a future People Pleasing Mindset Makeover.