59: Living in God’s Love When You’ve Been Hurt with Sarah Mae
Last Updated on August 29, 2024 by Alicia Michelle
What do you do when loving yourself or loving others is hard because you've been hurt in the past?
How can you move through the hurt and, with God’s help, find forgiveness and healing so that you can know you are loved by God and be free to fully love others? Understanding God's love is an essential part of connecting with ourselves and connecting with others.
Today’s guest is Christian author, speaker and podcast host Sarah Mae. In today’s episode Sarah shares from her newest book The Complicated Heart which details the story of how God’s redemptive love gave her the ability to learn how to love her mom despite her tumultuous upbringing and to eventually learn how to fully accept God’s love for herself.
If you find it difficult to love others or are in a relationship where you don’t feel loved, this episode is for you! Sarah's story is a beautiful encouragement of how God's love can heal seemingly impossible situations. She also shares several scriptures for loving others and gives advice for taking the first steps to let go of the pain.
Heads up: Today’s episode covers some difficult topics probably not suitable for little ears and also may bring up some difficult memories if you’ve struggled with abuse or a difficult past.
More Resources for Loving Others and Living in God's Love
- Ep 58: Best of: How to Know God's Love + Experience it Everyday
- How to Confidently Know That God Loves You
- Ultimate List of Bible Verses About Love
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Karen, thank you so much for sharing how Sarah’s story blessed you, and how you are looking to God for wisdom and guidance in this next chapter. And I’m glad you’ll be reading through Sarah’s book! Would you be willing to share this testimony in Apple Podcasts (in the review and rating area)? Thank you in advance as this helps others find the podcast. Grateful and humbled that the podcast is speaking so clearly to you. May you be blessed!
Hi, Alicia Michelle. I just finished listening to your podcast with Sarah Mae. I wanted to listen to it earlier, but was unable to find the appropriate time to do so. I am a disabled mother of triplet girls – now young women – and am currently residing with one of my beautiful angels to assist her through nursing school. Unfortunately, we are in a very toxic relationship which stems from a complicated story of abuse, divorce and many other traumatizing life events. This podcast was such a balm to my soul. I have counseled abused women and was a Christian Life Coach. However, being away from the ministry for a while and living in this toxic relationship has left me questioning myself and my ability to love my daughter through God’s eyes. I am waiting on a copy of Sarah Mae’s new book and am looking forward to the journey God has for me through Sarah Mae’s story. I thank you and Sarah Mae for your work and pray this podcast will continue to bless other women for years to come.
Karen 🙂